Saturday, October 07, 2006

Pictures of Chance




Here's a Picture of my son Chances foot print when he was born. As you can see he was very very small. My sister actually took this picture it was her idea to put the quarter next to his foot print which I thought turned out really cute. Your just don't realize how small his little foot really was until you see it next to something like a quarter that you hold in your hand on an every day basis. The next picture was taken when he was just 2 1/2 hours old. That's my hand next to him holding his little hand as you can tell I still had the IV in my hand too. That was actually the first time I had really gotten to see him.
They held him up for me to see him only for a split second before rushing him off to the NICU. When he was born he weighed 15.2 oz. thats not even a pound and he was 11.5 inches long and thats not even as long as a normal shcool ruler. He was so premature that hes eyes were still fused together so he never opened them. So anyways to make a long story short on what lead to his premature birth. I have what is called an incompetent cervix. Of course not knowing this before getting pregnant I had no clue as to what could happen. I had actually went into labor just 4 months into my pregnancy they was able to stop my labor but the only problem was that I had started to dilate I went from 0 cm to 8 cm in only an hour. They kept me in the hospital for a month on complete bed rest then one day my water broke. Welp when that happened there was nothing they could do but to med flight me to a larger hospital and go ahead and deliver. So that's just what they did. He was born in Charleston WV and lived 8 days after his birth. He actually to be so small did really well for the first 4 or 5 days but then made a major turn around for the worse. So after talking it over with the doctors they had pretty much explained to us that at the 8th day the only thing that was keeping him alive was the machines. So we took our son Curtis which was 5 years old at the time to the hospital chapel and explained to him what was going on and that his brother was not going to be able to come home with us. Of course little Curtis wanted to see his brother so the doctors and the nurses let him go into the NICU which normally they dont let little children in there and see his brother and talk to him. At that point they let us hold him for the first time so we all took our turns holding him. But, when it came to the point just hours later where we decided to take him off of the machines I wanted to be the one to hold him. So I held him and talked to him and of course cried hysterically as he slowly and peacefully passed away in my arms. That had to have been one of the hardest things I have ever had to do but, I just knew that he was suffering so much and as much as I didn't want to let him go. I also couldn't bare the thought of him suffering so much. So there is the story of my other mirclbabe too. Now hes my miracle angel.


Lemonade stand contest


Over this past summer Bluefield had their usual Lemonade Days so this year I decided to enter the children in the Lemonade Stand Contest. Now I'm not just being partial here but I do have to admit out of the 8 Lemonade Stands that were entered into the contest ours was by far the biggest as you can tell and the best. Of course the kids didn't win. But, that's ok what matters is they had a blast helping build the stand and of course saleing their lemonade. I wish I had a picture of the big orange sign that they drew. It was so cute it said "Welcome to our Tike Hut Lemonade Sale" notice the spelling in "Tiki" we had to X out the letter "E" and put the letter "I" above it. Everyone thought it was so cute. The above picture was taken close to the end of the sale as you can tell the kids were getting hot and tired they had to take a break sitting on the curb with my brother Dwayne. They started out wearing some cute grass skirts but it was just so hot and yet windy too that they didn't last long. And as you can tell by the time the contest was over the wind had just bout carried our tiki hut away. Especially the top of it. We shredded up a bunch of paper bags and I do mean a BUNCH of them and used some spray on glue to stick them to the top of the Tiki Hut. It didn't take long before the streets of Bluefield was covered in strips of paper bags every where. LOL So after the contest we loaded our Tiki Hut back up into the back of the boxed trailer and took it back to the shop and set it a blaze. I sware I think the kids had just as much fun watching it go up in flames as they did saleing their lemonade.

Fall Pictures of the Kids







Here's a picture of the 3 kids taken last fall. That's Curtis on the left, Lacy in the middle and Matthew in the red shirt on the right. Don't be fooled they just look all sweet and Innocent. These are some of my favorite photos of the kids. So I thought I would share them with everyone.

Thursday, October 05, 2006

Some things you might want to know about me and my family....

Well here's a little bit about me and my family. I've been married now for 2 1/2 years we just recently purchased our own home. We have 3 children between us. I've got a son named Curtis that is going to be 11 in December, hes in the 4th grade. I have a stepson named Matthew that is 7 and he lives in Ohio, and hes in the 2nd grade, also I have a stepdaughter named Lacy that lives here in WV and she is 6 and she is in the 1st grade. I also had a son named Chance that was born in 2002 he only lived for 8 days. He was born prematurely actually he was born at 23 1/2 weeks to be exact. I suppose for the most part all of the children get along really well of course they do have their moments were you just wanna ding the bell and say "ok kids go to your separate corners". But, those moments are far and few in between. Thank goodness. So lets see now, as far as my husband and I, hes a certified welder and works night shifts, and I'm an office manager for a local company that goes into the coal mines and repairs their conveyor belts so of course that's a day shift job. So that should answer the question you might have of why me and my husband have no children together huh? Where oh where would we ever find the time too? lol Oh here's another thing you might ask yourself as you reading my blog is why or where did I come up with the name "mirclbabe"? So here you go. Its a name that I have used online for quite some time. In case you haven't already figured it out it stands for miracle baby. It comes from my oldest son Curtis he was born with a heart defect called Hypoplasia Left Heart Syndrome aka HLHS. Hes under went 3 open heart surgeries starting at the age of 6 days old and hes also had 3 heart catheterizations. All of which was done before the age of 4. Over all hes done quite well with this all he's had a few things here and there but for the most part is doing really well. So therefore hes my miracle baby. Well I suppose that's just about all I can think of to tell you right now, I'm sure I'll be adding more and more later on.